22M [M4F] #Illinois/online/anywhere
Hello! tbh I don’t entirely know what to write down, so if it’s a little word-vomity my apologies😅 but I am a single guy in Illinois looking for a gf.
First and foremost, I should address the autistic elephant in the sub reddit, which is me. I recently discovered I have high functioning autism, which was no shocker to any of my friends/family. If that’s a problem I apologize😅.
A little bit about me, I am a huge nerd! I love all things comic books, marvel, dc, image, all that stuff. I enjoy watching movies and tv shows. I have what some would consider an unhealthy obsession with Godzilla. And I love to play dnd with my friends!
I am also a bit of a meathead. I train in martial arts, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Judo specifically, and I also enjoy weightlifting. I should probably preface that it isn’t the most important thing in the world to me if you’re crazy about your fitness or not, but I do prefer if you take care of yourself. But I will never judge, I had to lose over 70lbs to feel comfy taking off my shirt at a pool, so I get it.
I am also a musician! I play guitar and I sing, I have done so since I was 13. I LOVE metal music, but i’ll listen to pretty much whatever.
I’m also in college pursuing a degree in creative writing, and I hope to become an author!
As far as what i’m looking for in a person, I just want someone who is kind, compassionate, maybe a little clingy, and not afraid to keep it 100 with me. I appreciate honesty :). I don’t mind distance as long as we can communicate and make an effort to see eachother :).
I’m not sure how well this will go, but here goes nothing!
P.S. If we do “click” i’ll send a pic of what I look like in dm’s, just please don’t make AI porn of me (long story).
Posted Sep 28, 2026, 4:39 AM UTC