37f looking for dominant

I am a female submissive looking for a male dominant, mid 30's to 40's from the US, for online play. I want someone who can take control while still being in control of himself.

I have many interest.. bondage, orgasm control, pain, spanking, praise/degrading, public play, being told what to do in and (sometimes) out of the bedroom, and more. I also like rules and tasks. And good communication is a must!