36 [M4F] #Chicago #Illinois - We are all looking for that spark again AND we can be picky

If you're reading this, I know we are both looking for that spark again and to have a fun secret affair. Let's be the secret no one knows about, walking among others in the big city. We can also be picky too right? If you are short and a latina or white, take the leap and enjoy life. A simple hello can change everything. Age 35-50 is my preference.

Well I'm a 36-year-old married professional who actually lives in the city of Chicago and I’m looking to find that spark with someone again. I'm willing to put in the work with an affair, where discretion is a top priority, and give you all the attention you deserve. I will also respect your time with family and kids. Even though I don't have kids, respect is the number one priority with all this.

A little bit about me. I'm fit, 5'8", ladies say I am very handsome and have a great smile, black hair, brown eyes, and muscular from spending time at the gym. I love running along the lakefront or hitting up the museums. Life is all about risks. Let's create the passion and connection again we are searching for 😊.

I’m really looking for an escape that feels both emotionally and physically fulfilling, not just a surface-level distraction. I miss the genuine effort of a mutual connection—smiling at my phone from random daytime check-ins, exchanging voice notes, being silly together, and building up that anticipation before we finally get to meet and be in each other’s arms. I want to be there for someone to support them, enhance their life, and make them feel genuinely special and desired again.

Because of our situations, total discretion is an absolute baseline requirement for me. We both have a lot to lose, so navigating this lifestyle with safety, maturity, and complete privacy is a given. I'm clean, disease-free, and looking for someone who values communication and trust as much as I do.

If you're looking for those butterflies again and want to see if we have that natural chemistry, I'd love to chat. When the time comes, we can make time to escape and do coffee or happy hour first where we will make sure we do not run into anyone we know.