Wasted effort!

My husband (46m) and I had been avoiding having a long conversation for a while. Trying to navigate re-establishing intimacy. I finally sent my super long text to me, telling him all my feelings. What I expected, what was upsetting me. And I asked him about his porn use because it hasn't been discussed since April when he raised his voice to say he would quit porn.

He replied once, explained his current feelings, and said the only porn he watches are my videos. I've had many porn sites blocked on the router since August. So I replied letting him know that I do not trust him because of past evidence, and I asked him VERY specific questions! Like did you watch this day, and how do I know you're not using a private browser?

He had the audacity to NOT RESPOND! I waited several hours before going home. No reply. I got home, and he was clearly depressed, but did not mention our texts at all. What the actual fuck?! I'm back to ignoring him and I'm going to ask him tomorrow if he really thinks the conversation is just over???

I put so much thought and effort into that. He's really digging himself a bigger hole