I slept with my ex me [M20] ex [M20]

So a few days ago I texted my ex, I had just gone through a breakup with my last boyfriend and this ex was my ex before the one I broke up with, for context I fell out of love with my last boyfreind and I never really felt much for him for a while so when I broke up it was obviously still hard but didn't really hit that hard. When I texted my previous ex we played some games together then he came and drove to my place picked me up and we went and got coffee and stuff. This was late like 11pm and we went to the lake and sat on a bench and talked about our lives over the past years since we had seen each other last.

It was truely something magical I hadn't felt love like this in so long, I felt like someone actually knew me and knew how to show me love, eventually we went back to my place and um yeah we did the deed. I couldn't stop smiling the whole night or feeling the butterflys in my stomach he was so perfect he left his coffee on my bedside table as well. We went to sleep eventually and he left at 3am saying he couldn't fall asleep at other people's house but kissed me on the forehead and left.

When I woke up the next day I texted him and he said he enjoyed the night but he shouldn't have done it and he apologies. I've sent a few messages since but it's been 2 days and he hasnt responded and he's been active but just not reading my messages or reading them through the notification viewer and not clicking into them. I'm just so broken I felt so special with him something I hadn't felt in so long something I was looking for and now he's just ignoring me.

What do you think I should do ?, should I just move on should I try contact him again in a few days I really need advice I'm so broken and I haven't thrown the coffee out yet it's still in my bedside table it's the only thing I have from that night left.

Posted Sep 30, 2026, 3:33 AM UTC

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