47 [m4f] The difference an "I'm Thinking About You" message makes

Confession. I'm needy. I don't like going 5 or 8 hours in-between texts (unless we're asleep).

I like check-ins

Getting a message that just says "I'm Thinking About You" takes a lonely afternoon and turns it completely around.

I like keeping you up to date with what I'm doing, and hearing about your little things.

Of course I want big meaningful conversations, too. And hours of getting lost in each other. And spice and flirting and everything else that comes with an online, but hopefully one day in person, affair.

But we're both busy people, and life comes fast and hard sometimes. And when it does, taking five seconds to send those four little words makes all the difference.

If you are a bit needy, too, I'd love to hear from you.

Formality: Married man with kids seeking married woman for long-term affair.