OK, so I’m basically posted this already but I’m just gonna post it from the text section to see if they get put up. My friend and I started by just going for long walks together for hours and hours and hours every single week multiple times a week. And then eventually that turned into movie night and it was clear that we like each other.  story short, three months into all of that we finally became intimate. The hook up happens the weekend before he starts a major job. He basically tried to stay in communication that first week, but it was very shaky. He said things like his phone wasn’t working. He wasn’t getting messages. I still find it hard to believe we switched to only speaking on socials. And I let it be for two weeks we didn’t speak. This was my reach out in the text. I say something about three weeks. It’s actually two weeks. It’s three weeks since we saw each other two weeks since we spoke.

  
Anyways,  I really don’t know what to think. My best friend thinks he he’s hurt because he thought I pulled away and also doesn’t feel heard. I personally think he’s not feeling her because I’m struggling to accept some of his explanations as they’re not adding up.

Started dating my friend he disappeared after we hooked up and he started a new job, finally said something yesterday. Genuinely still confused.