FLR Locktober Rules 🔐

Hey guys, one of my first posts here. My girlfriend agreed to do Locktober with me. We’ve been together for 3 years and have our own house (23F 27M). Let me know if I should change anything or add anything. She really liked the idea and we’ve been talking on and off about it together for awhile. I’m really excited - key emphasis on the goal, as I want to make it really fun for her and I. Open to thoughts :) btw she was one who thought of some of these and loves the idea. Please delete if not allowed.

🔒 Our Locktober Rules
Goal: to increase intimacy together, affection, focus on her, self-discipline, reducing bad habits and creating a fun, creative event for us together.
Duration
October 1–31.
Core Rule
I’m locked whenever we’re together if she chooses (or on the weekend), except for the agreed-upon exceptions. She holds the key.
Key Control
She has sole control of the key.
She determines when I am locked - only when home or on the weekends.
Exceptions
I’m unlocked while at work.
I’m unlocked while working out and showering.
Intimacy
When we’re intimate, the focus is primarily on her, and we can use a strap-on if she wants rather than intercourse.
She gets to choose a new strap-on attachment each week.
She has no restrictions on when/how often she orgasms.
Other Rules
She gets back rub or foot rub when she asks, no arguing - minimum 10 minutes each time, needs to be asked before 10PM. Limited to 3x a week.
I don’t get to masturbate or touch myself when the cage is on, anal stimulation acceptable.
She is allowed full orgasms all the time, I need to focus on her only. I only am unlocked during intimacy if she allows it or she cums.
She is allowed to say when I can or can’t cum.
I can only fuck her if she allows raw or wearing an extender.
If I cum in her, I have to lick it out.
I have to lick cum if she asks.
I can never say no to her on licking or anything she asks about sexually.
I have to kiss her butt or pussy every single day.
She has to wear sexy lingerie at least once a week.
She can use strap on whenever she wants. I must be cleaned, she is allowed to say when or how.
She is allowed to pick where we go on dates, at least 3 times this month, she is also able to wear key and pick outfits if she wants. One date has to be in sexy outfits. I pays everytime.
She can add additional rules if mutually agreed.
I needs to help with chores/her if she asked.
I can not ask for unlock unless for reasons above or emergency/unforeseen.
Absolutely no porn whatsoever, except watching her and I only.
I is not allowed to ask more than twice for something, for example the second question can be clarifying. If the answer is no, the question followed can only be “can I ask at a different time when more appropriate?”
No farting unless in bathroom.
I needs to leave for work with her (assuming normal day/time).
If she wants a sex toy or fuck machine (within a reasonable cost), I has to buy.
One night a week, I is required to come straight home from work.
I is allowed one time a week to masturbate with her, 5 times the entire month.
Halloween night, she wears catsuit and boots. If feeling spicy, wearing key underneath catsuit.
Punishments (or reward😘 idea):
if unable to follow rules, she can pick punishments:
No cumming for X days (start small)
Spanking
Ass licking
Cook a meal (has to be mutually agreed due to work), preferably on a weekend
Anal
Gagged
Plugged
Toe suck
Sweaty licking, no TP
Tied and gagged, forced to watch her
All of the above? - Blindfolded, gagged, plugged and handcuffed
Handcuffed and facesitting
Anything else she can think of that is reasonable
Focused on good (reward)
massage up to once a week +extra maybe?
raw sex
complete lingerie (boots, stockings, lingerie set, etc)
cooking meals for me
date night, extra sexy night out theme (most dates night should be)