M22, engaged and doing pretty well in life, but I’ve lost quite a few friends over the past few months.
I was never the most social person, but I had 4-5 friends I could always hit up to hang out, go somewhere, do activities or just have a good time. Some moved away or got busy with their own lives, and some just naturally came to an end. I’ve tried reconnecting with some old friends too, but that hasn’t really worked out.
I’m mainly looking for genuine friendships at this point. I go out fairly often, including electronic music clubs, but I’m also into padel, biking, hiking, swimming/kayaking, and just cruising around in the car. I’d also love to try snowboarding this winter. Big on anti-drugs, I don't even drink alcohol. But I don't judge either.
I don’t really care about age as long as you’re an adult and preferably around my age or older. I’d prefer male friends as well, just out of respect for my fiancée and to avoid any unnecessary misunderstandings.
I work remotely and that naturally makes my social life harder. I’m pretty big on hygiene and self-improvement, I overthink things quite a bit and tend to notice patterns and connect things quickly. I’ll speak my mind if I’m asked, but if I can’t explain something properly, I’d rather not talk about it. I produce some electronic music for fun.
Not neccessarily looking for a huge friend group, although I wouldn't mind an entourage however I don't mind just a few genuine people I can actually hang out and build a proper friendship with.
If that sounds like you, feel free to message me.
Posted Sep 30, 2026, 3:40 AM UTC