A hot fantasy... or not? An ex gains the ability to grow themselves and also to shrink you.

An ex bf I had told me about his fantasy once. He LOVED the idea of me being able to grow myself, turning dominant, mean, uncaring and indifferent towards him. And I also could shrink him at will, humiliating him and demeaning him. He always ended his fantasy with me finding a giant guy, and we would humiliate him by doing it as giants directly above him as he watched. I loved the feeling of doing another guy as he watched helplessly below me. What do you you guys think, hot? I know I think it is.