bf went to strip club

okay so my bf went to a strip club after he knew how i felt about places no i am not insecure about my looks it’s more of why would you go there when you have a girlfriend yk? i texted him and asked what are you doung and he was like at a club with some friends and i was like a strip club and he said yeah whatever this is. also this man has never EVERRRR shown signs of lust doesn’t watch porn don’t have a wandering eye this man willing gave me his insta log in and his friends send him thirst traps and he will tell them to quit it and he also presses not interested when he gets them on his feed he has been doing this way before he met me even when he was single. so when i saw his location there i was more surprised then mad and i called him and i asked what are you doing in there like what is wrong with you?? and he said he was just meeting some friends and im like AT A STRIP CLUB?? and he was like yeah im not here for women im not paying attention to them everyone has been avoided and swayed away i don’t want them. and i told him to please leave as he knows i dont like those places and he left but then got annoyed and started bringing up BTS and how i payed to see them dance sexually… which an i stupid to not see the fairness? a strip club is not the same as a BTS concert?? he later on apologized and said he would never step foot in there again. am i wrong for being upset for him going there ??