Friend treats my chat as her journal
I'm in a moment of my life that requires a lot of discipline and hard work. I was exhausted coming back from a trip, couldn't reply in the midst of the long flights and layovers. As soon as I landed I checked and she had sent me 58 texts. And it's not just texts but also voice notes. Like several and 4+ minutes long. She does that on the daily and it's becoming very unbearable. I feel like she lacks a creative outlet of her own.
And it is mostly a monologue. Like just her yapping her mind out about several things regarding her personal life. The other day I got to fly a PLANE in a foreign country and when I told her she just continued to complain about the guy she was seeing and didn't acknowledge it, literally. And she knows how hard I'm working etc but regardless whenever I check she's talking to herself on my messages, even when I kindly say I'm too busy and will reply later. She just continues to bombard me with stuff. Which just makes the texts accumulate and makes it harder for me to want to reply.
And despite loving her I can tell I'm starting to get resentful lowkey. I'm someone who's always seeking to be there for people and respect them, I so easily find fulfillment on my own and entertain myself on my own without disturbing anyone's peace. And she's a cool girl by her own means with an active (very active life) going for her. Everything about this makes me think of the meme "did the journal factory explode".
“Just talk to her" literally the girl who ignored me flying a plane??? it'd be great if she could just get a grip 😭
All my friends are the kind u can reply whenever you want and who surely don't bombard your phone like this. idk why she's like that.
"she might be bad reading social cues" she works in PR bro she could fucking get into the white house w sweet talk alone she's super smart, specially socially. idk what this is
Posted Sep 30, 2026, 3:52 AM UTC