Guys give advice
Was in a relationship back in 2024 with the person I loved. Sab sahi chal rha tha but then in jan 2025 he saw my chats with my ex and decided to break up with me cause we both shared nuuds.
But hum dono se rha nhi gya and it was a stupid decision so we both came back tgt the next day. Fast forward in June 2025 mere Ghar pe pta chal gya ki I have a bf bhot maar padi and I used to cry all day bilkul mental torture hota tha gharpe and jab 2 3 din mei ek baar mushkil se aati thi insta pe bf se baat krne toh na kuch support krta alag hi distant krne laga khudko idky fir baad mei kehta "oh I was sad over a show, my character died". Like how stupid that is teri bandi yaha mar mar ke baat kr rhi h and you can't even talk to her pucha bhi nhi gharpe kya situation h. Issi time pe mere ussi ex ka text aaya it felt really good uss time to talk to someone ki koi samjhe mere Ghar pe kya ho rha h.
Same time hi I told my bf ki see he texted I'm talking if you wanna you can check my chats wagera but usko itna hurt hua issi baat ko leke ki he used to cry in isolation and wouldn't tell me fir we used to fight a lot iss cheez pe but later theek ho gya.
Fir in August he had a photoshoot with his ex crush for the volleyball team of our school (of which I was also a part of) he didn't only do the shoot but didn't refuse at all btw it was the girl who came up to me asking if it's okay yk. He did not even think about saying ki na na I don't wanna do with a girl ya fir I can do with me and later when I told him this he said ohh mujhe nhi pta tha ye kr skte the. And trust me this was my breaking point. I still loved him a lot but my trust was completely broken fir uske baad mere ex we baat ki maine chupke ki bhai ye sab ho rha h and fir bf ko jab pta chala wo bhi rr krne laga and eventually December mei farewell ke baad na kahi le gya na mujhe post kiya na scribble Day pe kahi gye hum matlab bhai meri puri 12th ruined uske piche rone mei I used to cry a lot and he'd say ro but mujhe photo vid mat bhejo acha nhi lagta. Fir he broke up with me physics board ke ek din pehle I begged him ki don't do this mere boards mental health sab bekar hojayega but he didn't listen
Fir Mai text krti thi 3 4 hafte pe ki pls Maan jao sab sahi hojayega but trust me nhi ho rha tga kuch sahi. Ab it's been 5 to 6 months since we've broken up usne literally unn logo ko follow kiya after the breakup jo meri chugli krte the and I literally had them blocked. He followed my ex best friends my ex friends and started smoking after the breakup which I absolutely hate.
I got to know smoking ke baare mei in september and called his dad and told him all this. Uske bhi Ghar pe pta chal gya tha ki he had a gf and bhot oppose bhi krye the iss baat ko leke. Uncle knew my face wagera ache se. Uske baad se uncle ne kaha send ss of his insta wagera sab and then ek din usne dekh liya and he blocked me.
So yeah this is it.
What do you think ki kabhi future mei reconciliation krne aayega wo?
I really don't have any respect for him but I really loved him more than myself at some point. Soo yeah this was it. Guide me guys.
Posted Sep 30, 2026, 3:52 AM UTC