Communities for low paragons?

QUESTION

My wife and I play D3 regularly together. In the past, when we wanted full games, we joined public games, but found it cumbersome to keep re-joining until we found a game that fit our playstyle.

So, a week or so ago, I started joining communities (Bounty split farming, Rift Runz, Reddit, a few others) and found some decent matches there. We are both pretty low plvl (150 for me, 86 for her) and run T1 rifts most of the time (T2 if we're feeling adventurous). We also LOVE split farming.

Recently, we keep running into issues with high paragon levels joining our games and pressuring us to close rifts right after the RG. I understand why people are focused on effeciency (especially high level players), but we love to play the game. We finish out our rifts as it's more time playing the game, rather than killing a boss, waiting the 30-45s for the new rift to open, then going back in again. We also get more exp this way.

The other frustration is that high-level paragons usually run us right through the rift, so most of the time we're playing catch-up and not really doing much other than picking up gold and loot that's dropped behind them.

We have an absurd number of tokens saved up, so we advertise in the communities that we're looking for low level paragons to rift with us - that we're happy to share extra loot and open up all the rifts for free. Without fail - we keep getting high plvls joining for the free rifts/shards and totally ruining the experience for us.

Are there any communities out there for new players or low plvl players that we can look for? We don't mind doing a little efficiency farming from time-to-time, but mostly we want to play the game and love helping out players newer than us when we can.

And - if anyone out there is looking to play with someone like us, feel free to add me on b.net (UncleAnt#1538). If you want to play with us - I'm a DH and she is a Wiz (I have a Barb alt and she has a DH alt), we are happy to share extra legendary drops we don't need and the rifts will always be free for you.

EDIT Since it seems like there isn't a community for this - I created one tonight. We're called "No Pressure Players" and it's open to the public!

EDIT 2 We play in NA, so that's where the community is. EU players - make your own! Diablo needs more good-natured communities that encourage gameplay over maximizing RNG rolls per minute :)

Posted Jun 12, 2014, 9:56 PM UTC · edited

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JayJonahJ•

I've always been a little curious about low-level rifting with a couple. My girlfriend doesn't have her own diablo game, but sometimes she plays on mine and that's pretty exciting. We usually play until we get off, and then do something else. Low-level rifting is something we've tried a couple of times. She doesn't like doing it that much, but she loves it when I do it and she loves to just watch. We've never talked about including another person or couple in this though, so I don't know how she will feel about the whole idea. Tomorrow is date night so I will try to ply her with wine and if the mood feels right I'll broach the subject. I'll report back here with what she says and maybe we can set something up! I think that maybe we should meet somewhere public first, like a game for "monster slaying" or even "brawling" ;) and just get to know each other in the party chat and stuff. If we all feel comfortable after showing each other our gears, we can move the party to something a little more private game and work up to low-level rifting together. I know you said you guys like to open, but we have some keys of our own stashed away so we can always take turns if that floats your boat. Sorry I feel like I'm rambling, let me tell you a little about ourselves. I am a lv70 barbarian with vanishing dye on my chest armor for the 'au naturale' look and feel. She is a wizard, very vanilla, and likes playing with hydras. Let me know if you're interested, I can send screenshots on request and would like to exchange them before meeting in the public game just to make sure we all like what we see. Looking forward to where this might go!

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holyevilcow•

Get it man. Playing diablo with your significant other is one of few more refined pleasure in life, until you run wd/wiz combo and she's convinced that legendary dropped is waaaaaaay more useful to her than you.....

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shasum•

Relationship acquiesence suggests you should always be the Crusader :)

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JayJonahJ•

Good advice, then I can ironically say stuff like m'lady

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meadow_fresh•

I always play with my wife and its great. Lucky I'm a monk and she is a wizard so no loot problems lol

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ploki122•

As a rule of thumb, just agree...

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riledredditer•

I feel like this comment is under appreciated by most of those who responded. Well done!

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JayJonahJ•

I was waiting for you, friend, comrade, brother. You make it all worth the effort.

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TransientJesus•

It sounds more like you want to run with people who are not as geared, not necessarily low paragon level. I'm personally P277, but I spent all that time on my Crusader. I have alts, but they're either at T1 gear or lower since I haven't spent too much time on them. I'm not sure if there's any specific communities for it, but if you ever want to run some stuff with my alts just add me and hit me up (Darkpariah#1399).

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commodoreerOP•

yeah - i absolutely get that. We dont mind the number so much as playstyle. we've just noticed most of the high plvl are interested in speed farming over actually playing. I'll add you tonight! :)

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Fzero124•

Lol, whats funny is that I am in the same situation with my wife too. I have a DH and she is a wiz too. If you want you can add me, I don't usually come on until 10ish EST.
I am having trouble getting her to try playing public games, so maybe it's a good transition.

Edit- I don't think she understands the game all that well, and refuses to learn proper elem builds, so her gear is quite lackluster.

http://us.battle.net/d3/en/profile/Fzero124-1935/hero/36814637

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AcheninBowelHammer#1253•

yalls playstyle sounds just like mine. add me #achenin1279

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holyevilcow•

Is this a thing? Because my wife and I are in the same boat. Do we need to start a new community for couples (normally one of whom has really crappy gear because they have no time or refuse to learn the game (I'm looking at you woman (she actually doesn't even do reddit (why am I even married then amirite)))) like us? It would be pretty sweet to play with people who love the game but have similarly low paragon level and crap gear (her reaction when she found out I got to paragon 70 without her was 'did you spend all your time playing this game?'). So yeah, let's get together and suck real bad.

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commodoreerOP•

This is a great idea! We're getting a little work done now, but we'll be on later. Feel free to add me and we can work out the details.

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Fzero124•

Holy shit, same issue. She refuses to learn how to play the game and then complains when she dies all the time.

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ASAPscotty•

It's simple. Your women are not gamers.

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okey_dokey_bokey•

When you advertise in Rift Runz channel, you can let them know that you're looking for non-overgeared people who will full clear rifts. I'm sure you will still get some interest. If you're forming the group, you can set the requirements as you'd like. Also, I've found some nice folks to do runs with just advertising through general chat too.

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Pteradicktyl•

Not on often but I like clearing the whole rift too. When I do play it's late evenings EST.

Fission#1508

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commodoreerOP•

us too, usually midnight - 3 or 4 am!

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RoosterTooth•

I'm at P80 something, just having fun. I don't have the time to dedicate as much as others. I'm always down for a few rifts/bounties around 8-10 CST.

RoosterTooth#1396

/EDIT

After logging, I noticed I'm only P60 something ><

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nopedotswf•

I don't know of any such communities personally but enjoy playing with friends and sharing gear that I don't need (I don't need many items except some of the super rare ones) and I don't have any pressure to "speed thru" rifts or whatever. While I am a medium/higher paragon (400+, multiple t6 capable chars) I'm still fine with running with anyone who isn't a jerk and is somewhat respectful. I have some lower geared chars is like to gear up in lower torment and am always ok with any of my friends tagging along when I do t6 content, provided they don't mind dying. (My playtime is somewhat limited to evenings and weekends due to work)

If ya'll are ever looking for a geared wd or wiz or an undergeared crusader, barb or monk/dh feel free to add me stormvine#1200

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Vlad164164•

LemanRuss#6759 ill glady run with you guys

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commodoreerOP•

we just signed off for the night (time to watch a movie and get some sleep) - but join the community "No Pressure Players." We've sent requests to most of the people in this thread and will catch up with the rest tomorrow. It's open to the public so if you have any other friends that are focused on fun over speed, get them in, too!

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okey_dokey_bokey•

Good on you for taking the initiative!

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krooloo•

I just wanted to thank you for this post.

I made the same community, but for EU and it's called No Pressure Players, as yours is.

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commodoreerOP•

This is really cool. I'm glad that this is an idea tha tresonates with the community! Good luck!

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kitten1st•

Aww, I got so excited then when I saw this and thought ohhh this sounds like fun, then I read the edit and noticed you play on NA. Sad face.

Still cool that you are making a community though!

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brieflyinsane•

Looks like someone started a community of the same name for EU!

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Trido•

I joined in with this guy for a couple hours tonight and it was great. Had a lot of fun just clearing Rifts and sharing gear.

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mrh4nd•

I'm going to join this community. I'm Para 96 or so and always feel like I'm missing out on loot. While I'm into RiF, I'm always interested in doing rifts with people. Split bounties is also awesome but I wouldn't mid doing casual split farming where there is less pressure after a clear.

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commodoreerOP•

Absolutely. We love split farming normal because it's a complete change of pace. We don't worry if one cache takes a few minutes longer than another or if someone's going a little slow - we just enjoy reworking our builds for pure speed vs. Survivability and damage output. It's a unique way to play :) it's also why we have so many damned rift tokens hahaha

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Quiettus•

All friends have stopped playing and would love some people to play with! I'll join the community tonight! Thank you!

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commodoreerOP•

Happy cake day! And feel free to invite them to the community - maybe we can show them that Diablo 3 is actually fun to play :)

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Quiettus•

Whoa! It's my cake day!?

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ZoenZoen#1339•

People who don't run with the whole group and think speeding ahead is the best strategy ever. Gotta love them.

Right now I'm sporadically playing while waiting for more Seasons information, but if you'd like, I can lend my Monk's services to you.

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zkfuzzy1•

would love to join yall i love clearing the rifts all the way i always find more sadly most of my friends moved on always looking for a new group of people to run with paragon lv 153 zkfuzzy1#1257

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EFlop•

If you ever need a pet WD just give me a shout. I'm willing to do any play style. I'm plvl 102 or 103ish. http://us.battle.net/d3/en/profile/dxeleven-1497/hero/8625706

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Fzero124•

If no one else is doing it, I am going to make a couples community tonight.

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Hylaeus•

Feel free to add me, Hylaeus#6267

Have you thought of setting up your own community/clan for just this purpose?

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commodoreerOP•

Just set it up tonight - "No Pressure Players" - feel free to join!

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