Need advice so I can make this the best roll for my wife.
This is the first time in 6 years she has even opened up to the idea. She had one very bad time after a dude dosed her WAAAAY to much and she started puking withing 45 minutes. I was upstairs, dude was being a sneaky prick and trying to get her fucked up. She has a sensitivity to most drugs, aiming on the low side is going to be a for sure but how low? Do women experience it differently in any way? We will be in a comfy home setting with proper prep work on the setting. I don't want to fuck this one up, this is something we haven't been able to share and I want her to feel ok about future use in a responsible manner.
UPDATE: Fucking awesome! Everything went amazing, no problems for her at all. This was one of the best things to ever happen in our marriage. We connected on a level that we needed to connect on, lately it has felt like we are in the same book but on different pages. This helped us a lot. I blacked out the living room windows, got out the LED strips and set up a good playlist. Very cozy and intimate, completely safe place. After the initial discomfort I watched my wife play around the house with glow sticks and she was just in pure wonderment of everything. It was adorable to watch her, not as a mother or wife, but as her being comfortable with herself and letting all the inner beauty come out. Went with a point for her and it was perfect, .15 for myself yet my roll was a little rougher due to me focusing on making hers good I didn't give my self the attention I needed before hand with hydration but that was dealt with quick. We had a huge open fire in the fireplace, tons of fuzzy blankets, fluffy couch and pillows, two wiener dogs and lots of starbursts, fruit and water. Started around 7 in the evening, lasted until about 12-1 before she was getting tired. Got up for a gnarly cafe breakfast and then back home for an entire saturday of cuddles and movies. We have both agreed that this needs to happen a few times a year, a summer and winter roll kinda thing. I have lost interest in doing this in big crowds or parties, while I have had a good time, this to me is what its all about and I am fine waiting every 6 months for this. Thanks you folks for the support and advice/encouragement.
Posted Dec 5, 2014, 12:38 AM UTC · edited
If you already know that she has a sensitivity to substances and you want to be very conservative, hit her with 90-100mg. In general, women are already more sensitive to MDMA. 90-100mg may not get her rolling deep, but, hopefully, it'll put her in an easy enough place that may open her up to something possibly stronger. Or it might be a perfect dose. But I'd say it's the best place to start.
Test your stuff as well. Good luck brother!
Tested and good to go there. Was thinking about a point, figure its enough to make sure it hits her but not enough to wreck her. So just under a point for her and a little less conservative dose for myself, sounds like a winner. I feel privileged she is trusting me with taking care of this, exploration has always been something I did with friends or myself. Bringing her along will be amazing, just the two of us on an adventure!! I am making sure we pre and post load also.
Make sure to come back and let us know how it went!
You sound like you're absolutely prepared. She's in great hands if you were willing to do this for her. I hope you two have a blast! Rolling with my SO has always been an amazing experience.
Get a nice playlist prepared too if you want! It's always a pain for me to do while I'm rolling. I pretty much lose my ability to read haha.