I need help with my thin hair (pictures included) regarding cut, routine and products.

Hello everybody, I'm looking for advice on what do to with my thin hair. I'm planning to go to the barber this week, so I thought I'd ask you guys in advance.

Right now my hair is I'd say medium length and I just kind of sweep it over to one side with a bit of wax in the morning and then I tend to go through it with my fingers during the course of the day a lot. I've had this style for the longest time and cant say I dislike it but whats been bothering me lately is that my hair is getting very thin and receding in the front, so I'm growing self-conscious about it. Furthermore the skin around my hair line is pretty red (but it doesn't itch or anything).

Pictures: http://imgur.com/a/QEgcT

The last picture is me a couple of days after my last cut. The rest is right now at 10 p.m. I tried to cover as many angles as possible but if you need more pictures I'm happy to take them.

What I would like to know is:

What hair cut would you recommend? (preferably with example pictures)

Is there anything I can do about the thin hair and red skin?

Are there products that I should be looking to use that make my hair look less thin or that work well with thin hair?

I'd personally prefer something that looks very clean/orderly rather than messy or "wild" or whatever.

Thanks in advance to everybody who spends their time helping me out, I appreciate it.