Is it just me, or is everyone trying to understand alpha men, or become one?
Posted Feb 4, 2015, 7:38 PM UTC
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You have the Alpha Male of the Group (AMOG). This is the best looking, most talented guy. Captain of the team. I think of Melville talking about the Handsome Sailor in Billy Bud when I think of the AMOG. Your game is being fit and good at the physical game you play. These guys get deference from men and women and have a cocky, DGAF attitude because their physical accomplishments get them attention and adulation from men and women alike.
Being alpha is basically having IDGAF, and having a DTF, attitude. Women and guys like to fuck. You have a DTF attitude and women will want to fuck you. You don't have to bring anything to the table except your attitude and your dick. You can be homeless and get laid all the time.
Once you start buying sex with attention and gifts and service women start milking you for all you are worth. This is being a nice guy, beta bucks.
Only a couple of guys in a hundred will be the AMOG, in their circle. Most guys don't have the athleticism or the looks. But that doesn't mean you have to open up your wallet and write poetry to get laid. TRP has a suite of techniques that allow you to be sexually successful. Some are looking to get laid all the time and want to fuck all the pussy, others are just looking for ways to make the relationship they have more successful.
Feminism comes up a lot because it has all the indications of being a failed sexual strategy. Having said that, it is the predominant sexual strategy out there. You have to be aware of how it operates in the real world, or you won't be sucessful.
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thats not the meaning of Amog.
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yeah, a strategy for women. Dogs have a strategy of fucking whatever they can catch and hold down. We don't talk about it incessantly here.
And I would normally agree with the understanding line, if it were about a counter strategy, or how it prevents an optimal male strategy, but we both know thats not how it's posted here.
It's a 'femenist did something batshit crazy, lets comment on how great we are for not being this batshit crazy'
not exactly as noble
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It's deprogramming. Believe it or not there are a lot of indoctrinated men out there that come to trp and need to be deprogrammed by being shown the stark contrast between women's words and actions.
Deconstructing feminist bullshit assists the deprogramming of new, indoctrinated subscribers.
I'd say the worst shit that gets posted in this sub are the threads complaining about shitposts. A shitpost about shitposts.
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Ah, I see what you did there.
Good play
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I am here to refine my social awareness, not become alpha.
I am not alpha, I never will be. I'm wise enough to know my limits. So, given this, I want to circumvent my shortcomings. TRP helps me do that.
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It's a filler word anyways. You fill it with anything that makes a happy life.
Family with kids? Alpha
spinning plates? Alpha
Leading birtch wife for freedom? Alpha
Basically so long as you are achieving your mission, without being subjugated by others it's alpha
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TRP is theory with a low percentage of readers/posters who are actually Alpha.
That's a good point and lends to the fact that everyone can't be truly alpha or top dog. But even though everyone can't, there is a gradient between true beta and true alpha and this places helps people progress more to the true alpha side, even if that goal is never truly and completely obtained.
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I can tell, femenism seems to be all that a tons of guys here can talk about.
I'll bet even more spend more time on 2xx than here.
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the smart ones have a great agenda... share knowledge, and get better. It's what the internet is for.
A lot of the rest just want something to complain about. The weapons techs and the bitching table over morning coffee. Nothing but cathardic
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Once you swallow the pill you learn the definition of AF/BB and nobody on here wants to be BB
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Betas don't want to be betas either... They just don't know how to be simmering else
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What is the F in the acronym?
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I was happy to be BB. Until I realised someone else was (or had been) AF and that her implicit part of the bargain (appreciation / respect / sex) was an illusion.
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I'd recommend deleting this or reposting it with better wording. This could be intereperted as concern trolling (I know that's not your intention) and mods have really stepped their game up on banning for that and other bad behavior.
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If it happens it happens. I'm always up for dropping the mod bombs. Can't assume I'd be exempt.
Besides, I would love if posts like this didn't make the threshold... Risk you take with Meta posts
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I think it's because an awareness of social awareness supplementary to living the ideas is a powerful thing. Now don't get me wrong, debating feminists and getting mad at them all the time won't achieve shit. Your time will always be better spent focusing on yourself. That's not to say we shouldn't pay attention. The feminist movement has the power to influence laws that go against our interests. Pure and simple.
As for studying alphas like animals, I think that's also important because it gives us an understanding of what's going on when the girls who claim to hate them subsequently fuck them. I can say that this question used to bother me to no end!
Now by studying them like animals, I don't resent them personally. I don't react as emotionally as I used to when getting amoged or whatever. Now I can just accept it, and focus on what I can do better next time.
Having an understanding of something like our concept of the male alpha helps us to develop an immunity to what would otherwise drive us fucking nuts.
Think of it like this: Television advertising. If there were two guys subjected to advertising, who do you think the ads would hold the greatest power over? A regular person, or a marketing psychology professional who has a deep understanding of the underlying mechanics involved?
I'll admit at first I was a little annoyed but I think your post is a good one. These things definitely need to be addressed.
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The reason there is so much anger is because we don't want to be alpha bros pumping iron spinning plates. We are nice guys who wanted to fall in love with a nice girl and live happily ever after, but for one reason or another we hit a low that knocked us out of our illusions and forced us to see the reality of women, the godawful truth that they always viewed nice guys as pussy's, and they see ignorant self absorbed childish aggressive braggarts as confident strong and brave heroes.
This leads us to the best strategy given reality, which is basically get a hard muscular body, dress well, learn to approach and talk to strangers and make them laugh, learn to dance, go out to bars and clubs and tinder to meet women for one night stands, call some back for plate status (not exclusive, 2 sex's a week, no sleepovers), if you want you can promote one to friend with benefits (not exclusive, 3 sex's a week, sleep over once a week, day dates both pay)
You make your money for yourself and you just have this constantly rotating soft harem of young attractive women to have sex with. You never get that love ever after that you grew up wanting so bad, but this is it, this is what we settle for. But yes, seeing the things women will do to men is painful, we are the red pill, but we are part of the general MGTOW crowd for a reason, and these ragebait links are the reason.
Having said all that, I would prefer these types of ragebait links were minimized, they have nothing to do with the purpose of the red pill, and belong on r/mensrights, not here.
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I have a question for you Dev
If this is how simple it is... why are you still here? (No disrespect intended. You clearly know what you're talking about. I think the question is relevant here.)
Simple != easy.
Working out is just lift in a natual range of motion, and progressively add more weight.
Simple means you can explain it in a sentance, easy means we shoudl all look like Arnold
Hope that clarified what I was trying to say. There was a great mark mansfield blog I believe that explained it pretty well. He's got the self help guru feel now, but it was a gem
As for why I'm here.
bored at work, would rather feel pseudo productive than waste time looking at banality on the r/all
genuinely want to contribute to a body of knowledge. like wikipedia, but for men.
every now and again, I get a rebuttal that makes me think about my 'right' way of doing things. I always worry about echo chambers, and holding back with my friends and SO. Random people on the internet don't really hold back, and I just need to separate the wheat from the chaff. We can all learn something from others. Just a lot more others here, and I prefer to hold everyone in the sub to task.
the idea was progress, not perfection. We all need work
Deleted the old reply since you edited.
I have no idea who has downvoted you. Whoever has. Uncool!
I'm on board with those reasons. But the standard response to someone who is feeling a little... underwhelmed by the standard of the sub is to tell them to contribute more of what they'd like to see and not to whine about it. Men do, while women complain, ya know? With that not being your standard reaction, are you sure you don't have anything going on in your own life or your own journey which is making you feel a little low about things?
The tone I inference (I'm a writer by profession, I've spent years studying how writing comes across, sue me) from your post was one of a man who was thoroughly fed up and looking for change. If you can objectively look at yourself and say everything is fine then great, the above advice about contributing what you want to see in the sub applies. If not, then perhaps this is food for thought. Either way, hope it has helped.
On occasion, but with the security clearance, can't talk much about work. Not worth the risk.
That and I'm more focused on career than plates. I have stopped spinning plates years ago, now want the 48 laws, not the plates.
But I'll probably start telling more after retirement in October
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