[TOMT][video] Russian(?) Scientist explains why we may never contact life on other planets

I remember seeing a video on youtube a few months ago where a guy tells a story about his scientist friend (eastern European, not sure if he was Russian) explained why he thinks it is unlikely we will ever contact extra terrestrial civilizations. The explanation was something like, because the universe is so big and so old, the rise and fall of intelligent species is a small blip in the grand scheme of things. He also said something like "maybe two of them met, maybe they had peace, maybe they had war". Anyone know where I can find this video? Thanks in advance!