My (19M) gf (18F) won't do anything other than sex.

Relationships

Well, i'm in highschool and i have been in a relationship with my gf, lets call her, jeny. I have been 3 years with her and we have sex everytime we see each other (around 3/4 times a week.) all we do is eat and fuck, i'm bored and feel the relationship like a table with nothing on it. Yes i have a good time doing it and she is extremly hot but she gets mad everytime i cant go for a second round because she belives young people can handle it in a 5 hour (aprox) period.

When i try to talk about something else she looses her mind and starts shittalking about me been a faggot and not treating her right (i constantly takes her to dates and most of her friends tell me they wish they had a bf like me), she always hurt my feelings telling me shit and when i defend my self she gets mad over that im treating her wrong.

I cant talk with her about anything because she always tells me im dumb (im kinda am) and she has the "logical" answer to it. Then i shut myself and she gets mad.

She is very jelous and doesnt like me have friends, any kind of friend.

She wants me to be on facetime all day with me. I can't even take a shit without her telling me dafuq are u doing.

She asked me for a promise ring and i gave it to get but now she said it means we are engaged and spends all day talking about our wedding and shit.

I have try to break up with her but she always cry and tell me how awful boyfriend i am and that i have hit her.

Truth is that everytime she gets mad she hit me and starts pinching me in my legs and belly.

I can't have sex everytime she wants, (some times he even ask me to have sexon public places) but i get too tired after first round and she gets mad at me after not going hard in a couple minutes. Then she procceds to call me how faggot and sissy i am.

I love her but i hate her actitud about everything, i tell her to change but she tells me im the problem. I don't want her getting hurt over some asshole and i dont want to be alone.

I need help please, what should i do? P.s sorry for english.

TL;DR: GF wants only sex and tells me how fagget.

Posted May 26, 2015, 3:30 AM UTC

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_sharkattack•

Maybe you should dump her and focus on school...

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devijhoOP•

Yea you're right, i'm getting more into my school since i'm going to college in a couple of months. thanks for the advice.

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Samgp918•

Sounds like she is super clingy and controlling. Wanting you to be on facetime all day is kind of insane and pretty controlling. If it were me I would have broken it off already, I just can't deal with that.

She is very jelous and doesnt like me have friends, any kind of friend.

Yeah thats a problem. I suggest you dump her for someone who lets you actually have a life outside of her.

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Satafly•

We all know why

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NoosesAreBad•

Why are you with her? She sounds terrible, you should leave and find someone more deserving of your kindness.

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Ilsaluna•

She's controlling and abusive.

The time to dump her was a while ago, so do it the next time she calls you. If you're reading this and on the phone with her, there's no time like the present.

Take your life back.

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MySemanticSatiation•

When she blames you, just end it there. Tell her to get somebody she deserves. You do the same. She doesn't deserve how great you are, you don't deserve how shitty she treats you. This is one of those-end all contact and make it quick, situations. Do it on face time and record it, so if she threatens you, you have a record of it. Restraining order may be needed. This isn't love. Please please please get out of this abusive relationship.

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coffee_goddess•

Stopped reading after you said ahe calls you a faggot. If she curses at you and puts you down, LEAVE. Dont be with a hateful person who uses homophobic slurs, gross.

You deserve a nice person who doesn't criticize your performance and turn sex into a chore.

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GoMakeASandwich•

Sounds like she sees you as a dildo with legs.

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HieroDaGuyro•

You should dump her. The pinching is abuse. The demeaning is abuse. The crying is manipulation. She's a psycho. Let it go. You'll be happier for it.

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EmEffBee•

Yikes your girlfriend sounds awful and abusive, you don't deserve to be treated that way and I think you should break up with her. Take care of yourself OK?

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