Overheard an eye opening Convo while on a date
So I was on a date with a girl I met on OKC. We've been going out for over a month now but this isn't what's important.
Setting: in a restaurant seated next to two females in there early 20's
One of the females started telling the other one about a guy named John she might go out with from tinder. At this point I just chuckled to myself and continued to eavesdrop. Nothing too crazy about it so far. She shows the pics of him to her friend and they comment on it. She says she isn't sure if she should give him a shot because he seems too straight edged...yadada. Then she goes on to mention the guy she went out with last night who was kinda fun and how she has a different guy for tomorrow! I was kinda impressed but still a little taken aback.
I mean I know guys serial date and all. I've actually been there myself. It was just weird hearing an exchange me and my friends would have but from the opposite gender. She wasn't done either, she then told her friend about how she was not going to text a guy named Billy anymore because he isn't initiating a meetup. And how she had a date set up with a guy 10yrs older than her next week who has a great job and such.
Finally she mentions the poor chap she has lined up for Monday who she will most likely flake on if she gets asked out by the one she is really crushing on.
Both females seemed about average attractiveness wise, nothing to write home about. This detail is a little important, just trying to give some kind of ideas as to how surprising it all was that she could get so much play and seemed so casual about it.
I asked my date if she and her friends are like this and she said "you have no idea". Sent a chill down my spine.
I guess what I'm saying is that girls play the field as much as guys do and then some if they want. So if you're flaked on or faded on don't sweat on it too much... It was probably just because something better came a long.
Posted Jul 31, 2015, 11:28 PM UTC