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musclebound92

Having Doubts, Is NoFap dangerous if you are a man that really wants nothing to do with women anymore?

I've done it all with women. Ive dated a few seriously, been in relationships, had sex with a whole lot. I really don't want anything to do with them anymore (lots of bad experiences). I'm not at all doubting NoFap, I am a firm believer in it and am seeing this through till the end. However it feels almost dangerous to be doing... With my mentality I'm really starting to go A-sexual. And no, I don't mean the actual definition of the word. I mean it generally speaking. Kind of worried, would love some feedback. And before I get people worrying that I am letting bad experiences shape my perspective, let me give you my analogy that I have given to family, friends, and co workers when they express the same concern. Say you are a mailman, new to the job. You have your route, its your first day. One of the houses has a really cute little dog outside of it, so when you deliver the mail you go up to the dog to say hi. It snaps at you viciously and almost bites your hands. Woah, that was weird, better just get back to work. Next day you do the same thing, and the dog bites you. Overtime you go by the house the dog looks so cute, but it snaps at you and hurts you. Naturally, the mailman stops going up to the dog, ignoring it because it knows that as cute as it may look, it could hurt you. And he has work to do, and a life to live, so he'd better just stay away from it. This is called prejudice, it is a natural evolutionary instinct instilled in all animals. Anyways, would love some feedback, cheers.

Posted Jul 31, 2015, 11:31 PM UTC

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