Domme disappointed in male "subs"...

I am a young Domme that is extremely demanding and that has high standards. I am looking for some subs that will actually be able to completely submit to me and not try to use me to play out a fantasy for them. They all claim to be obedient and blah blah they are either flakes or unstable. I do lifestyle and financial domination and I don't think it is hard to open Google and learn a bit about it before trying to contact me and wasting my time. Do any Dommes feel that same way? Can all of the actual subs out there help out the struggling wanna be ones?

I'm actually a bi Domme and I only mentioned males because I have not had any experience with a female sub.