Amazing night out with the girls! NoFap combined with game + lesbians = real, down to earth connections

I'm pretty sure you fapless bastards know all the benefits of doing NoFap so I'm not going to go into detail on how it got me to become the 8th wonder of the world. Anyways, every time I do NoFap, I would work out hard at the gym, focus on my life and goals, study and develop new skills, work on my hobbies, use all that sexual energy on something productive, but there was always something a little sad about it. I was always alone or saw about 4 of the same friends over and over again. It's not that I'm a social reject or anything, but I was just so focused on myself that I would deny a night out when someone invited me and neglect my social life. That was one of my main reasons for why I started doing NoFap in the first place. For the drive to socialize and create strong bonds with new people, especially women. I'm not sure if you guys are familiar with Real Social Dynamics, Simple Pick-up, or "game". If not, I highly recommend looking them up as they clear up your mindset about picking up women, dating, flirting and they give some pretty sound life advice as well. I took on a confidence builder challenge called the 3 night challenge.

NOW THAT I GOT THAT OUT OF THE WAY HERE'S WHAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT!!!

A lot of people underestimate the power of 2nd week of NoFap. This is usually when amazing things start happening to me. Ok so I saw this video(I can't remember which one) where in order to develop stronger social skills and be able to talk to girls more easily you gotta get out for at least 3 nights in a row just plainly to have a good time(It's a really good start for shy guys). I was like "Alright man I gotta get out there and do this! That's why I started NoFap in the first place!" This is the first time I went out to mingle at bars in a few weeks.

1st night sucked so bad I left early. Extremely awkward and uncomfortable.

2nd night I was out with a friend. It went a little better, still pretty awkward and I just wanted to go home, but I forced myself to stay out a little bit longer.

3rd night, now this is where the magic happened and it usually does for a lot of people who've tried this. Here's what happened!

On the 3rd night after work, I was so discouraged from the past 2 shitty nights that I just wanted to go home, have dinner and sleep. I was walking to my car when a female co-worker of mine asked me if I wanted to go out. I automatically said yes, even though I wanted to say no and thought to myself "What have I gotten myself into". I got home, took off my dirty snap-back and planned on taking a shower, grooming and getting dressed. I looked at myself in the mirror and I found myself to be oddly handsome for some strange reason and felt clean. All I did was change into a nice pair of pants and thought my outfit looked pretty cool. I then realized that I'm becoming more accepting and confident about myself. NoFap and gym time played a large part in this so let me give a shout out to all you Fapstronauts out there for helping me believe in myself. Off to the bar I go. So I meet up with the co-workers and keep in mind that they're all lesbian so I can't make any sudden moves you know what I'm sayin? But there is one girl in particular that I always felt drawn to, let's call her Ana. We grab a drink, "Whiskey and coke, double". Ana stepped right beside me and said "I'll have the same" which impressed me since most girls usually reply "Ew". We go back outside to meet our group of girls. They start talking and gossiping about work, typical girl convos. BORING!!! If I wanted to fall asleep I would of just stayed home! I made my way into the conversation, started telling funny stories, showing them my vacation pics on my phone, girls started creeping over because pre-selection theory duh! Before I knew it, I was the star of the show and tonight was my night. Even though I had a flock of girls around me and a handful of straight women at my disposal. I just wanted to get to know Ana.

NoFap and Real Social Dynamics has cleared my mind and opened the possibilities to social interactions with women. Tonight all I wanted to do was to get to know Ana. She just seemed really cool and I connected with her extremely well without even trying. Looking back now I feel kind of stupid for not at least grabbing a few numbers from those other girls that crept to our group, but I don't regret it. Soon we were bar hopping and I introduced Ana to some new drinks, shared life advice/stories and gave her plenty of laughs. She was very interested in who I was and said she liked me a lot! Though she's a lesbian so I didn't want to push it. It's 2AM, the bars are closing and I wanted to go home since I had work the next day and I was pretty sober at this point, but she still wanted to hang out with me. She suggested we get hotdogs, but I told her about this really awesome taco joint so we went there instead. Using a technique I learned from game, we split up with our group, got some tacos and just talked and talked without any awkward pauses. I decided to take her on an adventure and she was totally up for it. She barely knows me, but she trusts me. This meant a lot to me and I will not take that for granted. I showed her my favorite road that I like to drive on to clear my head. I took her to a supermarket where we laughed at the employees who had to work there this late. We went to a gas station to pick up some juice and we drove to some fancy apartments on the hills which gave us amazing view of the small city I live in. It was a pretty touching experience.

Enough of that, what I learned from this experience was actually to getting to know a girl as a person and not as a potential fuck. I mean my goal is to still have sex with girls lol, but I didn't objectify her. This made it easier for me to see other girls just as a person. Sometimes to make it easier for me, I just pretend that every girl I talk to is a lesbian. Well there you have it folks. NoFap and motivational videos saved me from a night that could of ended very awkwardly, but instead lead me to a night that created one of the most powerful connections I ever had with anybody.