2 guys, no idea what to do. Help!

Hey everyone! So um this is kind of my first time using reddit (I know- crazy!) but I thought I'd just give it a try.

I'm a [16/fm] in high school and have recently learned how shitty guys I meet can be. I just got out of an 8 month relationship with someone I really liked, maybe loved, and ended up getting dumped in the end. Which sucks because it's hard for me to stop thinking about him :/ Meanwhile, I have two guys that like me, and am not sure what to do about it. One being my old friend from new york, who I've always really liked, but the distance was a little too much. He recently contacted me and started telling me how much he missed me, and am not sure how to react to it! On the other hand, a boy in my Spanish class always winks and puts his arm around me, always making an effort to talk to me. The distractions are nice, and its good to get my mind off of things, but I'm not sure if I'm into anything right now. It has been a month since I got dumped. I could either try reaching out and trying new things, a new relationship, or I could keep sulking until I feel better. I'm really not sure what to do, and figured, hey! What better than the internets opinion? Should I try getting to know this guy, or keep telling myself I'm not dating anyone again. What's your best method of recovery: distraction or over thinking things?

I would love to hear your guys opinions and hopefully you could give me some advice with this :)