[UPDATE]I (31m) am looking for homes with my 6 month pregnant wife (29f). She is being very erratic and I'm worried

Previous thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3mmbi9/i_31m_am_looking_for_homes_with_my_6_month/

Hi got some good opinions from all of you and just wanted to update for those so wanted to know.

Unfortunately, things really haven't gotten better. Worse actually. We got a new house she loved, I was happy it was something she loved. Two weeks after moving in she found the house terrible, "unlivable." We had a very quick close so we were stuck. Looking to put the house back for sale now.

Infinitely worse, my wife had a premature delivery and a miscarriage. Her entire being seems to be in shock now. We're living in a house she hates and she fluctuates between rage, abuse, hatred, and catatonic, dazed. We're both crushed by the loss of our son.

Ya that's all I have the patience for writing. I have no idea what to do. Trying to get her into therapy or something to take her mind off things. She still has no desire to work (or do her writing career), in bed/couch all day, saying hurtful things, I'm feeling financial strains plus trying to sell the house dealing with mortgages, working full time plus taking care of meals and home, and lack of sex (haven't had any form of it since inception but of course I can't expect it because of her grieving..) yep really close to doing something I won't be able to regret.

tl;dr bought house wife loves, she hated it, have to sell it, we lose our child, wife becomes rage/abuse/catatonic/dazed. Can't see the light at the end of the tunnel.