me 21 M anger issues.

During my youth I had problems with the other kids. This has caused me a lot of grief over the years.

And part of the reason this was so is that I have a hard time getting angry. (I know this sounds wierd.) I just dont get angry. Instead I get dissapointed or sad but never mad.

Because I as a kid knew I had to get angry at certain things I tried to fake it by being violent. And I hoped that it would pass.

About 10 years have passed and I am still never ever angry at anything. As stated before ill just get sad, annoyed, dissapointed or it just does not bother me.

If you try to insult me I just dont care. I will always stay rational. If someone tries to hit me I would rather dodge and try to incapicitate them then try to cause them harm.

Now someone recently asked me about it and I got told that doing this is wrong and leads to problems. (For example being a pushover) But for me that just does not seem the case. I am stubborn enough to stand my ground and I voice my opinion and imo look out for my own interets just fine.

Can I have your opinion on if this is wrong and how I should change?

TLDR: I dont get angry. Ill just get annoyed, dissapointed, sad or I dont care.