r/LongDistance•
james9120

Girlfriend [20] is really clingy and needs my [23M] constant attention. She thinks it's because I don't want to talk to her, when I just want to live my life.

I approached this many times with her, and it's so suffocating. I love her to death, but I don't have any time to myself. Just today I went in a short and sweet road trip by myself and she's freaking out saying I don't want to talk to her, we spend no time together and stuff when in reality we text almost non stop and talk for hours on the phone every night.

Just the other day I went on a day trip with my friend and I had to remain in constant communication with her. I lost service for 10 minutes and she started to accuse me of cheating and avoiding her. And I had to spend the next three hours arguing and assuring her I didn't do anything.

I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm so frustrated and angry about it I just feel like sleeping everything away. But I don't want to lose her, I'm more than willing to help but I don't know how.

Posted Feb 21, 2016, 9:00 PM UTC

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