Feeling more 3rd wheel....

Not sure where else I can share this and maybe have people understand it so I came here.

Not a happy poly week.

So I have spent the last few days with one of my bf's and the whole time I almost feel like I'm just here. not that I'm really wanted and more like I am interrupting daily life. We have shared a bed, but that's about all.

Both of my bf's are 400 miles away. I planned this trip a month and a half ago. 1 of them didn't have any time to spend with me and the other one, I had more fun with his wife going to see a movie than I have had with him all weekend.

Now we are at his GF's house (so I could meet her as well) and it has just been awkward quiet.

I was ok but not sad until I heard them playing a bit in the kitchen and realized that he hasn't really wanted to do ANYTHING with me all week. He has chattered on and on complaining about so many things that no one else cares about (how google wont release information on stoplight timing or about how there are unnecissary curves in the road.) like it is constant nervous chatter.

All of the positive energy I was hoping to get from some time with the people I love and it is all just making me feel more alone than before.

Has this every happened to anyone else in Long distance relationships? How do I not let this carryover into June, when we are planning on attending a week long camping event together.