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I am scared about taking a girl's (23f) [virginity] (23m)

I have been trying to get with a specific girl for a couple of months now, and last night, I finally made out with her at a bar. We were both hammered, but I was so glad it happened. She is attractive, and I was hoping to take the next step soon, as our texts have been going well.

However, my friends just told me she is a virgin. This came as a complete surprise to me, and I am not sure I feel comfortable taking her virginity. I am not looking for anything serious, just a simple FWB situation, because I have been going through a month-long dryspell after my last connection moved to a different city. Should I feel guilty or scared about taking a girl's virginity who has waited this long? I do not see a future between us, and honestly feel a little selfish if I am going to take her virginity for no real reason. She is not religious or anything, I just think she has never seeked out sex.

Posted Feb 22, 2016, 4:08 AM UTC

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