My NDad acts like it's my fault that I'm not talking to him.

He just sent me a message on Facebook saying along the lines of "You can't still possibly be mad at me for whatever it was you were mad about. Are you ever going to come over? It's been three months now."

I have yet to get an apology.

He knows exactly what he did last because I told him and he knows exactly what he did the last 22 years because I told him. I don't want to hear him imply that it's my fault that I'm mad or don't want to see him. I don't have to ever forgive him or speak to him.

For the record I'm not speaking to him because he cussed me out over the phone because I decided to get off of his medical insurance. I was tired of him dangling that over my head and threatening to cancel it if I didn't do what he said. He lost control over me and got mad. A lot of emotional abuse growing up, but I don't want to get into that now.