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(Serious) Would you still have sex/masturbate if you didn't climax?

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Posted Mar 17, 2016, 10:18 AM UTC

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Malboroo•

My friend has a condition which means she can't orgasm. They can't pin down what it is.

She still loves riding cock though.

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DerikP•

Is that what she told you? ;)

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Malboroo•

I have never had sex with her, neither do I plan on having sex with her.

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taekwondo_girl_lily•

Sometimes its nice to just lie there touching myself without an orgasm. A nice way to just unwind for a while so I probably would carry on yeah

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420Sheep•

You wouldn't, probably.

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blagulon•

I'm not sure. Of course women do it all the time, but I'm a man.

I suppose inherent is the question … can I climax at all? Most women can from masturbation mainly of the clitoris.

I suppose if sex was an erotic activity that I didn't orgasm from I would end up doing it less and less as the relationship went on. It would be fun to do, but the rewards seemingly drop off. Like Cunnilingus. Oh now I see …

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tonsofjellyfish•

I don't think I'd bother with masturbating but if I was in a relationship I would still have sex.

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IKrato•

I don't think so, I think it has to do with the reward system, you only do something because you get rewarded for doing it. But since living organisms are programmed to want sex then I think I'll still do it. Also if I'm in a relationship then simply seeing the look of satisfaction on my partner's face would be pleasurable, to see someone you really care about feel pleasure.

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That's a big NO for me. It's like a race that doesn't stop. There's just no point imo

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rudedood•

I'd rather be cumming than stroking.

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suddenly_satan•

Do you mean at all, or just in that one single instance?

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synth22OP•

Meaning you're physically incapable of experiencing an orgasm, but still feel the pleasures of intimacy and friction.

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__Thunderbeast__•

I guess not. That'd be some kind of torture. I'd only do it to pleasure my woman. Masturbating would be useless. I don't get much pleasure from the stroking.

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Aprikoat•

Hasn't stopped me before even though I've never felt much during

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SSGTObvious•

Yup. A dick ride would still feel awesome.

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Satans__Secretary•

No. What the hell is the point, then?

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Pa5trick•

Having been on medication that prevents me from orgasming, I can tell you with certainty what I'd do. I had sex still, though it was not very pleasurable for me and I just focused on getting her off and then stopped. Some women thought it was because of them that I couldn't climax even after I assured them so then I stopped having sex basically altogether.

As to masturbation, that's a hard pass. You get sore and chafe before you can feel pleasure.

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prettystupidstudent•

Depends. Sometimes I like to slam one out before an interview or something important to calm down.

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