AITA for being mad at a friend

So I took a video of my friend doing something embarrassing, I sent it to another friend and told him to not show him or talk to him about it (I included please in capitals to let him know that I meant it) 10 minutes later, he comes up to us and tells him that I recorded it. I wasn't even mad he told him, I'm mad that he broke my trust that I gave to him to not show him. The next day, he messaged me privately about why I was mad. I told him because he hurt my feelings and I thought I could trust him. He didn't take it serious and was messing around the whole time we were talking. He later told the kid that I recorded, that I'm mad because he told him I sent the video to him, which I wasn't, he told him "he's mad because I'm not a dick", I was mad that he broke any trust I had in him. He later tells the rest of our friends that I'm mad over it and now all my friends think I'm a dick for it. I don't know if I should apologize or what. I don't feel like I'm an asshole, I just don't want to talk to him anymore because told him. (My opinion, I think he's a toxic friend, and I should split away from him and maybe the others, but I could be wrong, maybe I'm just an asshole"