I'm thinking about quitting the game because duty finder takes too long.

I'm on a Japanese server and I play from NA. I usually play in prime-time JP around 4-6am, and I have very long wait times 60-70 minutes for extreme primals as a white mage. Any advice or am I simply out of luck? I just think I'll have more fun playing another game and I'm not waiting an hour to play any game, including ffxiv.

For instance, it says:

Time expired: 79:45 Average Wait Time: 5m

Waiting for: The Howling Eye (Extreme), The Bowl of Embers (Extreme), Thornmarch (Extreme)