Me [28 M] with my wife [28 F] 6 years, she thinks I'm going to leave her because she's infertile. [UPDATE]
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So I'm back not sure if anyone remembers me but I took everyone's advice to heart.
So my wife was in our room still in bed crying I wasn't sure what to do but I had an idea. I went in to our room and, sat next to her and held her for a little bit and calmed her down.
After I asked her to get dressed because I wanted to take her somewhere special. (The restaurant I took her for our first date surprisingly I remembered after all this time)
She didn't know where we were going but once we got there she got all giddy and happy. We ate and, talked for a bit and listened to the music she seemed happy which is all I really want.
We went home and I told her I wanted to talk to her.(I wrote down what I wanted to say)
Here's what I said.
"Ever since I first met you I knew I wanted to be with you forever, I just couldn't find the words to express it.
Your my world there's nothing that could ever replace you out of the billions of women your special. Because your one of a kind, sure there's other women out there but in my eyes they don't compare.
Your my companion my partner my teammate, and I'll always be here to pick you up when your down."
She cried a lot more and she she calmed down she wanted sex but it was different. It was slower and, calm we looked into each other's eyes until the end.
I reassured that I'm not going anywhere and that I married her and made a commitment to her. We cuddled the whole night after.
I talked to her more the next day about some therapy and she agreed as long as I go with her. (She doesn't want to do it alone)
As for the whole "children" subject I'm going to wait a little bit until she's feeling better. Right now I don't think talking about kids would benefit her anyway.
We also talked about traveling in the future seeing some places and experience things together. Other than that she seems okay now I know she's not fully feeling better but she's happier a little.
Honestly having kids didn't really matter to me as long as I have her I'm happy. But there's the update not too long but that's what happened these past few days.
tl;dr: talked to my wife and reassured her that I'm not going anywhere we also talked about therapy and future plans.
It's all getting better now.
Posted Apr 15, 2016, 2:15 AM UTC · edited