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skinotabum

Looking for an accountability partner

Whelp, on day 7 of my first attempt, I remember thinking how easy this actually was. Day 8 saw a pathetic, pathetic contrast to that. Since then i have only made it a few days here and a few days there.

Clearly I can't do this alone.

28 years old and a user for 12 (13? 14?) years (Wow, I guess I can't even remember when I started with the PMO...). At my worst, right before discovering nofap, I was 'indulging' at least 3 times a day, but usually 4 or 5, sometimes for hours at a time.

I know I want this (nofap). During my first attempt to get clean, I could start to see and feel the 'normalization/superpowers' beginning to peak out their head, even if it was just a placebo boost in confidence. And it was driving me to action. I ended up asking out a couple of girls (a feat as difficult for me as for many here on nofap...). One of which was even interested in me -- until I relapsed, falling back into my insecure habits, and messed the whole thing up. I started to work out too, which I have fortunately not relapsed on since day one. I have been making a habit of spending a couple hours reading at the local coffee shop.

But I can't quit fapping. Who wants an accountabilibuddy?

Posted Apr 15, 2016, 2:16 AM UTC

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