My (27f) roomate (25m) decides to do a 60 people party while I said 30 because bf (22m) and other roommate (30m) don't care

o, my roommate is going to British Columbia for the summer and he wants to throw a show with his band in our sitting room. He wanted an open house at first, which is certainly not happening, that's like saying "rob me"

They didn't even planned on having home insurances at least before the party, whatever it's size.

I'm already annoyed with parties, with having people late, because I can't go to sleep, I hear everything going on, to me a party is like 15 people

So I stretched it to 30, which is still a lot of people to have in an apartment

On his side, he doesn't want to do 30, it's 60. He asked the 2 other roommates and as they don't mind, he thinks it's okay to do it.

And he won't care about what I say.

We are not a bar, we have an apartment. I'm not supposed to have to fight for the right to use it as its intended.

I don't think 30 is a low number of people either

And I certainly won't stay in an apartment where it's okay to just go over me like that. Just because the others don't care.

So I told bf I would move if it happens.

He said he will say max 30 too.

I don't have much, it's all old but it would cost a lot to replace. and I'm not working right now. the roommate declared bankruptcy lately so I can't just say "you'll pay if they break/steal it".

I don't want people vomiting, taking the bathrooms.

I would be going for 3 days to babysit for someone, so I'm very anxious they would just throw the party anyway. I wouldn't be able to sleep.

And I don't trust bf to go with the max 30 if I'm not there.

I think I'd just stay home and call the police if needed. He doesn't want to care about the fact I mind ? I won't either.

Anyway, this whole thing is creating a mess, he is angry at me because of my max 30, I am at him for not caring about me feeling safe in my home. He still think he will find a solution to get 60 people, and I certainly won't accept a number that high. I think I'm already pretty nice about it at 30 It's a frigging appartment

Edit: so now I just received a facebook invite of 60 people at my home at a date we didn't even talked about

He and I are not on the lease, bf and the other roomate are

Tldr: roommate wants to invite 60 people to jam in our appartment. Said 30 max.

He still created an invite of 61 people at a date he didn't even asked for