does anyone else have issues with..

group plans? not specifically because of any social anxiety (which is also an issue for me) but more so because its so hard to please everyone?? it just makes everything so complicated and i feel like i never want to do what the majority wants to do. is this because im a party pooper or bc im not fun? or is it bc i just want to be able to control things myself...? for example, going to a music festival soon and i guess there's like a kickball tournament or something and everyone wants to do that but that means missing out on 2 bands that i would really like to see and idk why everyone would pay $300 (how much the festival tickets were) to play a game we could all play at home together.... im not even sure if this is relative to this sub just stuff related to any of this at all gives me a lot of anxiety. i'm in a group chat and reading about all the ppl talking about wanting to do that just made me mad at them and made me want to be alone bc its easier. i turned my phone off bc i am so frustrated and i wont say anything. ugh. im not sure if i am even explaining any of this right. i have this constant struggle with wanting to be with people but once i am i just want to be alone because then i can control the situation myself and i'm a lot less worried.