23 [M4F] Australia/anywhere - Looking for a partner
I'm the kind of person who likes having just one or two very close friends, or ideally just a girlfriend who is also my best friend. I want a partner, a best friend who wants to talk a lot every day, play games together, whatever really, just a close relationship where we're each other's first priority.
I haven't had any really close friends or a girlfriend in a few years now and I really miss always having messages to read when I wake up, someone asking me if I want to play a game with them, etc, but most importantly I miss the underlying closeness and loyalty to each other, just that feeling of wanting to do something and knowing they'd be happy to do it with me.
Everyone I meet here says they want to talk all the time, they love playing games and would be happy to play them together, etc, but even if we happen to get along well, they never really go out of their way to spend time with me. I care about my friends/girlfriend more than anything and what I enjoy most is spending time with them, so I always take my friendships really seriously and put a lot of effort into spending time with them, so I want the same in return.
About me:
I don't have too many interests really; I spend most of my time writing fiction/fanfiction and playing games such as WoW, Runescape, Hearthstone, Minecraft and Pokemon. I love Vocaloid/Utau music, as well as Nightcore and some other Japanese music, but I don't really listen to anything else. I love anime, but I don't really watch much anymore unfortunately. As for TV shows, I don't watch very much tv and there are none that I really love, but my favourites would be Game of Thrones, Black Sails, True Blood and Spartacus.
As for my personality, as well as the things I've already mentioned, I like to think I'm pretty funny/entertaining, and I'm good at keeping a conversation going all day. I'm very honest, open and non-judgemental so I'm happy to talk about anything.
Some other important things to know about me: I used to be very depressed and had quite bad social anxiety, and although they're both mostly gone now, my life is still a bit of a mess. Also if it matters, I'm about 5'11", Caucasian, and have been told I'm about average looks-wise; I'm happy to exchange pictures if you'd like.
About you:
The most important thing is just that you feel the same way about everything I said above. You have to be looking for the same kind of relationship and happily put a lot of effort into spending time with me, as I will for you. I don't have very many interests and really the only thing we can do together online is play games so you'd have to have at least some interest in them. As well as that, and this is kind of obvious, but I tend to get along worse with people who have tons of different interests that they really care about because I have so few, and more interests = less in common.
Personality-wise, I don't really mind too much. The most important thing here is that you're nice/caring because I'm the same way and would like it in return. I'm not sure if this fits in the personality section, but I want someone who cares about getting to know me. I always ask tons of questions, I want to know everything about you, but even though I include so much in my posts, all of my interests etc, nobody ever asks me anything about myself, so I'd like someone who does. Other than that, and this isn't a requirement, but I like helping/looking after people; I'm very supportive and always try my best to help my friends/girlfriend with anything I can and make them happy, so someone who really wants/needs that kind of thing would be a good fit.
I don't mind too much when it comes to age and location, however I tend to get along better with people around my age or younger rather than older because my life is still pretty much the same as it was several years ago. Location though, obviously you'd need to be okay with the idea of (one of us) visiting/moving eventually if things go well. I hope to hear from someone.
Posted May 15, 2016, 7:57 PM UTC