I need advice, is it a shit test?

I'm getting back into the game after divorce. I had gotten good at it which is how I got married in the first place. But now I'm brushing up on stuff and need some opinions. Last Friday I met a sexy blonde at the bar, she gave all the signs, playing with her hair, touching my arm ect. We stayed out til 5 am and the following Sunday we went out and stayed out until 5 am again. I didn't contact her again until Tuesday night and asked her out for Wednesday, she said she had plans but if they fell through, shed love too. Wednesday I didn't hear from her so I texted her at 6 pm. She was free, and we went out again.(was this a shit test, did I lower my value by texting when I didn't hear from her) I texted her Friday and asked her out again for Sunday night, she told me that she had dinner plans with a friend, but the friend was notorious for canceling. I told her, I would leave it up to her, but I hoped her friend cancelled. My question is...should I text her today to see if they cancel and see if she wants to go out. Or should I wait, and assume if she wants to go out she'll text. She is high value, which is why I want to pursue a little. But I am high value too, and I want to make that clear to her.