Anyone Anxious with their spouse?

I've been quite anxious with my spouse lately. Using my social anxiety wears off when I get to know someone and get comfortable with them. It just doesn't seem to work with my spouse. I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can't get comfortable with him. He often criticizes what I like and makes me feel stupid if I don't know certain information so I guess I just never got comfortable. I tend to get extremely anxious around him. Anyone felt that with a gf/bf or spouse?