Prick with a car is slowly but surely kicking me out of my social circle
Basically, this guy has started to hang out with us and atm we're all learning to drive or close to passing (17-18 UK) and this guy has passed his test, sweet af right? Right up until he decides he's going to use this car to alienate me from my fucking friends.
My smoke buddy lives about 10 mins from me, 2 mins by car and this guy makes a point of picking him up and not me. Like bruh, I don't care if you want to take people out in your car driving about, but when you take the group of friends I normally hang out with and have been doing so way before you got on the fucking scene and leave me sitting on my jack onorrie for the last few weeks then we're gonna have a fucking problem.
It all kicked off because I called him on his shit ages ago when no one else had the fucking balls to, I get it, yeah your pissed that I called you on your shit but if he keeps fucking with my social group and trying to push me out then I'm gonna loose my shit. I managed to find some awesome friends that, without them, I don't know where I'd be rn. I was slowly pushed out of my last group and was left thinking I had a group of friends when in reality I was alone for about a year and half. A year and a half of thinking that these people were my friends, one of whom I considered my best friend. I'd known him since I was 4, we fucking grew up together, did everything together and now he wont even read my fucking messages or look me in the fucking eye.
Its not as if my new friends don't want to hang out with me, its that this fuck-wit with his fucking car doesn't want me there. I was hanging out with one of the group yesterday and because he wasn't looking at his phone, car guy texts me asking if I was with him, when I said yes he said "Ask him if he wants to come to [place]"
I looked at that text for about 5 mins thinking how fucking rude have you got to be to text me asking me to see if he wants to go out and not even throw a courtesy ask my way. While I'm looking at this text, marveling at how rude it was; he rings me.
"Hey is [name] with you?"
"Yeah he is.. sup?"
"Okay cool, can you ask him if he wants to go drinking tonight?"
Bruh. Not only did you fucking text me asking to speak to him, now you're ringing me asking me to sort plans that you're not even going to courtesy ask me to? The fuck you think you doing, and more to the point, why the fuck should I help you out you rude fuck.
I reluctantly ask my mate if he's going, and we've just finished smoking a few joints so we're a bit spaced; while I'm sorting plans for this ignorant fuck, he and his friends start taking the piss out of me while I'm on the phone, on fucking speaker
Right. No. Enough is fucking enough.
"Before I carry on helping you sort a night out you haven't even asked me to fucking go to, I wanna know who's having a good fucking giggle at my expense then. How rude can you be? You text me, only to get hold of someone else and then you start taking the piss while I'm on the phone to you?! Where the fuck do you get off you ignorant prick."
Que the end of the laughter and oh fuck silence
".. Uh, yeah.. they weren't laughing at you but if you want to come you ca-"
"Na fuck off, I don't want to go with you. Here you want to speak to him so fucking bad here he is. I'm not gonna help plan a night I'm not fucking invited to."
Gave the phone over, put my weed away and rolled a cigarette /end session.
5 mins passes, mate comes over. Says he's gonna go drinking with them in a few hours and I'm "welcome to come". He still wants to finish the sesh. I'm not mad at him, after all the rest of the squad was going and he wanted to drink recently. Tell him I'm done with the sesh and I'm going home.
That was yesterday, I had plans to meet with my girl today and help her out with college work, I'd been low key texting the guy from yesterday about meeting up in a bit for a cigarette and chat, we said we'd meet for one after I walk her home. I text him saying I'm walking her back, meet in 20 min?
No reply - "He's replying slow is all don't stress"
Walk her to her door, say bye 20 min passed, still no reply off friend.. hmm.
Shoot him a "?" wait 10 min, no reply.
Ring him, no answer..
Ring again - answer.
"Yo man, where you? You wanna meet for the cig or nah?"
"... Sorry man, [car] picked me up about 15 min ago and he's got a puncture, we're down [far away place].. I might be out later though?"
Fuck this
"Yeah k, whatever I'll text you if i'm out later. Cya" /end call
That was 2 hours ago. I ended up buying another pack of 10 and smoked them from the shop to my house with a few hand rolled ones now and again.
I only wanted to meet because I argued with my girl and was upset af. Now I don't even have my buddy to talk to and I'm seeing the tell tell signs that were there last time I was pushed out of my last group of friends :(.
How fucking dare I try and be happy for once right? Why the fuck should I bother trying to make new friends if some prick with a car can swoop in and destroy all the bonds I've built in the past 6 months. Why the fuck can't my friends see how fucking upset and alienated this prick with a car is making me.
... I just want my friends man
[Edit] - Fixed the formatting
Posted May 15, 2016, 8:48 PM UTC · edited