Dealing with being kicked back for acting in an RPwives way.

I'm curious about how you deal with being criticised or mocked by your peers and relatives for behaving in an RPwives way?

I haven't told anyone in my life about RP with the exception of one much older relative and even then I've done so in a round about way.

I have personally experienced being mocked for behaving in an RP way and I didn't really know how to deal with it.

We were at my in-laws house and my husband had been busy so I got up from where we were sitting and got him a hot drink. They made fun of me and told me I was acting like his maid. It wasn't in a particularly nice or joshing way either. It's put me off from doing anything like that for him in front of them again. I was really shocked because they didn't strike me 'modern' types.

It isn't the first time I've done something that in my eyes is a fairly standard act of service, that I've been pulled up for or mocked for publicly.

So my question is, if you don't have supportive people around you, how do you deal?