Theory: Becoming a girl is an alternative to Redpill

Once a really "nice" virgin gets burned by his own methods, he concludes that women are part of some evil conspiracy to oppress "really nice guys" and he joins the Redpill line of thinking. Alternatively, some of these guys are so submissive and envious of women and out alleged ability to get laid on demand that they can't stop pedestalizing women. They decide that the image in their head of their ideal girl is who they really want to be. They base this on the fact that when they see a girl who is visually similar, they feel envious and wonder what it would be like to be them. I've heard from an actual psychiatrist that it's normal for men to thinking about being women they're attracted to, but none of them are going to admit it, if they're even aware of it. Then they start obsessing about experiencing their idealized fantasies about being a girl. This female image pops into their head all the time, producing the "thoughts of being a woman doing mundane things" that they cite as evidence that they really must be women if they imagine being a girl doing mundane things. This is after they've become obsessed with the idea of becoming a woman.