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Ccox19

[Serious] Adults of reddit, what advice can you give to someone struggling to come to grips with the transition into adulthood?

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Posted Jul 24, 2016, 6:35 AM UTC

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Gnarkillicious•

It gets worse. Seriously.

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blong217•

Expect to fail. You will not get through adulthood without failing at something. The best thing you can do when you fail is pick yourself up and better yourself from it.

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mynameisnobody33•

Be careful of the people you let into your life from this point on. People will screw you over as an adult. Hopefully you have a good family and some solid friends.

Unfortunately I'm coming from the point of the guy who got screwed over. I don't want to paint a doom and gloom picture. I just want you to be aware of how many scumbags are going to come off as friendly. Be careful and good luck.

When you have good people around you that have your back. Enjoy there is a lot a fun and adventure to be had.

I hope you have a good life.

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Ccox19OP•

Exactly, I'm just trying to be a good person. It sounds go simple, so innocent but, yet some people find it difficult to achieve.

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Franos4444•

Don't fall into the trap of assuming that being an adult means you need to handle everything on your own. Don't be afraid to ask people for help or advice.

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Ccox19OP•

This is something I have trouble with. My whole life, I've never asked anyone for help. I would rather keep something to myself rather than ask someone close to me for assistance or help.

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BravoTangoFoxObama•

I would like to help but would need to know what the struggle is for you OP? It is different for all of us in some ways notwithstanding common themes. As Tolstoy said in Anna Karenina: "Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

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Ccox19OP•

This so true. For me I'm having trouble coming to grips with the changes life is throwing at me. I just wish I was 12 or 13 with not a care in the world and no day-to-day responsibilities. I keep losing friends like I lose my keys. Adulthood just sucks man.

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BravoTangoFoxObama•

Most change is difficult and stressful even if ultimately beneficial. It helps to have some constancy is your life. For me it was things like reading, sports (playing and watching) and learning (not necessarily just in school, but being curious about the world and figuring out how things that interest me work). Having those interests introduced me to people who shared those interests and friendships developed. I outgrew all of my high school friends, save one.

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