[other] Looking for pegging videos without humiliation
So here's the deal. My wife and I are into bondage play but not at all into the humiliation aspect that colors a lot of that scene. We lean more towards the forced orgasm approach, where the reason she's tied down is so that I can make her orgasm until she can take no more, not because she's my slave and I'm her master. I'm not interested in spitting on her, insulting her, or any of that. I'm just interested in giving her pleasure.
The reason I laid that out first is it sets the tone for how we'd like to approach pegging: mutual respect and pleasure with no humiliation. When we're having vanilla sex and she's on top, she's in charge and I'm along for the ride but it's not like she's treating me like her bitch or sissy or whatever. She's just fucking me. We'd like to engage in pegging with a similar feel -- she's the fucker & I'm the fuckee, but nobody's treating anybody as an inferior being.
Where we're stuck is that she's having a little trouble visualizing pegging that way because it seems to be so often tied to subjugation. We enjoy watching videos for both entertainment and inspiration, so we watch a lot of bondage & restraint videos, and specifically she likes to watch videos of new things that we're going to try before we do; it helps her be open and relaxed and engaged when we finally dive in. So she has asked me to try to find some pegging videos that more closely match our desires. But I'm having trouble finding any that don't include the sissy/humiliation aspect. There's gotta be some stuff out there where the woman is pegging her man out of love and a desire to give him a sensation that can only come from prostate stimulation, without the humiliation/insulting/sissy stuff.
Thanks for any links or search terms that would help.
[And please don't take our lack of interest in humiliation/dominance/whatever as a judgement of you and your preferences -- if that's your thing, more power to you (or less power to you if that's the side you're on) -- it's just not our thing.]
Posted Aug 29, 2016, 11:02 PM UTC