Anyone else keep porn hidden from your partners?

Trying to get inside my boyfriends thought process.

He watches porn but still hides it from me. We have been together for 5 years and he still secrets it away in hidden files.

I don't care that he watches, I do to; We used to even watch together sometimes. I'd honestly enjoy being able to watch the scenes/clips he's into because I'm kind of ADD when it comes to what I watch and it's sometimes hard for me to find something I'm interested in. He outright denies ever downloading or watching porn like I'd be upset with him or something.

I was using our computer (the one he's on most) looking for a file from work and when I checked the recently viewed files in VLC I noticed a porn video. Obviously, like a madman I clicked properties to see where the file was and boom, hundreds of gigabytes in a folder hidden deep within the Steam files. I asked about it asked why he felt like he needed to lie about never downloading porn but he acted really ashamed and didn't really give me any answers.

He's generally a more reserved and quiet guy when it comes to 'intimate' things, whereas I'm more open with people I don't even know about the porn I watch than he is with me.

This is kind of going off the rails now, but what would you do if you were in my shoes?

Posted Aug 29, 2016, 11:45 PM UTC

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