39 [M4F] (Online) Nerdy Dominant looking for his submissive, slave, or ride-or-die-bitch, you should have a sense of humor and low standards

I know this can be scary

Finding out that there is something inside you that isn't truly socially acceptable, well it can be hard. Then you have to worry about the type of people who inhabit this new world you want to venture forth into. Are they all creepy, weirdos who want pee on you? No! We all don't want to pee on you, or fist you, or dress you up as a horse to have sex with you.

To be honest some of us have very normal, and safe interests within the lifestyle. Though I have experienced a few things that people may consider extreme, I know what they are about, and if dressing you up as a horse and me having sex with you as you whinny and prance truly excites you, well then giddy up.

What I mean to say is that the best qualities to have for the lifestyle in my opinion are being open minded, having a sense of humor, and patience. I know a lot of people talk about well I wont do that, or I'll never do this, and that's fine. I just don't think this lifestyle really lends itself to being close minded. Who knows maybe you might try something outside your comfort zone, and you'll love it.

With that said what this process is about is discovering who you are, and what is inside you. I know your probably thinking right you just want to use me for filthy disgusting sex acts to get off, and you'd be right, but that's not entirety it.

Yes I want to act out disgusting and filthy sex acts, yes I won't deny that but, and there is another point here and that is when you submit, when your mine, you'll want to do them even more then I will

Crazy talk right? No as I said this process is about you discovering who you are, and what you can become. Some people love to serve, they love belonging to someone, being owned, controlled. There is nothing wrong with that, I think people who give themselves to others are some of the strongest people around. It takes a lot of personal strength to sacrifice yourself for someone else, to please and love someone more than yourself.

What else I suspect that you might have that in you if you are reading this or else why would you be here. I mean the coffee here sucks, and this subreddit gives the worst financial advice.

As for who I am looking for, well I love to laugh, I love funny and intelligent conversation. I love people with big hearts who are romantics. But mostly people who are willing to take a chance, and embrace the possibility of what yes means.

I hate to do this but there are some rules the first, US and Canada only. Secondly we are going to talk and get to know each other on here, I'm going to ask you questions, and if there is a connection we can move this off reddit. Thirdly don't ask me for a photo within the first 20 seconds of talking to me, no I don't have a hump back, no I don't have a cleft lip, what I am interested in is getting to know you more before we introduce pictures into the mix.

In all seriousness, I want you to take a moment and consider the possibility of messaging me. I think the opportunity for joy, for passion, for excitement, and discovery are here. All you need to do is take a chance, and open yourself to the possibility of what if.