Me [21 M] with my [29 F] 3 years, breaking up with gf when she is in a bad spot.

Last months something terrible happened my girlfriend bought a terrain for building a house (girlfriend and me and her sister and brother could life there). and she never got it she is now in a really stressful legal fight and still works 6 days a week. And the fact that I am now since 2 weeks in my country and can't really help her...

If she never get that terrain she will be ruined. It costed about $10.000 which is REALLY much for her country. she saved years for it.

and she borrowed a part from the bank which she needs to repay.

and too she needs to build a cheap house on the land quickly for legal reasons.

Her family pushed her into buying this terrain and now they aren't supporting her much (they life in another city).

I think about breaking up unrelated to the house issue, but due our age difference that is becoming a problem but I am afraid if i break up before she solved the terrain she will get depressed and don't have the will power to get the terrain back.

I thought breaking up fast as possible is the best since she wants a family and I don't feel ready anymore. And she don't have unlimited time for finding a new partner and starting a family.

But I really want that she wins the legal fight about the house. If she doesn't she will have a great debt and I am scared that her life will be over.

I didn't want to buy the terrain and my money isn't really involved and i told her not to do it.

But her family pushed her really hard and my girlfriend has a really big heart wanting to provide roof for her brother,sister me and her.

So whole day she is working and dealing with this problem, And when I tell her I think it is better we split I am sure it will get too much for her and she will cause much damage to her self.

tl;dr: Think about breaking up, but I think it will get too much for her to handle at this moment.