Cluster B Priorities

Years ago, my uNdad cut off my health insurance because he said he was threatened with paying more alimony to my mother. He could afford it either way truly. My mother at the time was crying about feeling abandoned and judged by everone, she bought a top of the line luxury European car because she "needed something reliable." Crying endlessly about being a victim. She also could have helped with my health insurance. My job was to comfort her.

My father? Never a generous man suddenly became aggressive about giving me something different, putting me on Nutrisystem instead.

Cluster B priorities.

EDIT: I'm sure people with N parents in addition to a BPD parent understand the aesthetic obsession.