Live convo - Not sure what to do here, help?

A little background first: I'm going through a separation with my wife right now, working to divorce. During our last few months together, she said I could go with other girls since she wasn't interested in fucking me anymore. I said fine, great. I came across MRP and TRP and realized I'd was being fucked over. She was getting all the perks of marriage without having to give it up. I said fuck it and now we are separating. Now I've never had game, I am the quintessential Betabux. But reading TRP, i've slowly started applying the tools and building a social tool box. I've been lifting, eating right, no booze, being really fucking good to myself, and here we are.

The Story

I met a girl around xmas at a friends place. Shes the SIL of my good buddy. Hot, single, fun. We knew of each other before but didn't really know each other.

She friends me on FB last week and I message her for her number. I ask my buddy if he'd heard anything about me from her, he says, "she said she liked your build".

We get to texting and I get her out last Saturday for a drink after she was in her PJ's. She got done up and came out. Had an awesome convo. She asked about my status, I said foolishly that we are trying this open relationship thing and seeing how it goes. She's receptive to the idea and we chat some more about non-monagamy etc. I try to kino but the table set up was shit it seemed to come off weird, but she didn't shy away. Night ends, we hug, no kiss. off I go.

I hit her up Sunday to see if she wants to get together this Saturday for whatever. She says she might be going out to a nearby resort town for the weekend. I say cool, have fun.

Then I hit her up today and this what transpires. I don't know what I should do. She hasn't responded in couple hours. What would you do? Ihaven't told this girl we are moving to separation yet either.

Me: Hey XXXX! how's it going?

Her: Hey!! It's going fantastically!! How are you??

Me: Fucking awesome! Just booked a trip to XXXX, gonna see (a cool place). How was singles awareness day?

Her: Omg!! That's awesome! Boys trip? 😉

Her: It was great! Got spoiled. Went to Wendy's for dinner. Watched 50 shades of Grey then had drinks at cactus club! Not too shabby! (I know she went to the movie with her friends, not the dude who spoiled her.)

Her: You??

Me: Just me and XXXXX. I booked to go alone but the call of XXXXXX (a cool place) was too much for XXXXX to not come lol. I took the kids for Ice cream haha it was fun. So you found someone to tie you up and spank you then? Lol

Her: So XXXXX and XXXXX! (Places I'm going in the near future) That's kinda amazing! Awww cute that you spent valentine's with the kids. 😊 And no, I haven't him yet...but at least now I know what I want! 😉

Me: It's going to be a bucket list year for sure. How's your weekend looking?

Her: Must be nice to be you!

Her: My weekend...we're renovating our house so my weekend now will be moving furniture and ripping out carpet and baseboards 😒

Me: (Condo downtown + you + me + Netflix) x 🍷= Saturday night ;) - I have a place I can use downtown.

Her: Ya...I don't know that that's a good idea...😒

Me: What do you mean? You don't want to watch Gilmore girls with me over a glass of wine? I need to find out if Rory marries Luke!

Her: 1. I don't watch Gilmore Girls. I watch Narcos.

2. I don't Netflix and chill lol

3. I don't trust you with wine 😉

Her:You're a "bad boy" trying to be your "best self"- dangerous combo

Me:1. I like to make lists too 2. I have already seen narcos 3. I don't trust you with wine either, but we are going to have get past that 4. Being the best is what it's all about 😎

Me: Dinner first; it's a terrible idea to drink wine on an empty stomach anyway :)

Her: You're relentless

Me: lol ya... and?

So there we are. Do I push till I get a no?